Men,Men,Men!!!!!

ok so most men say there not complicated, so figure this one out... I have an Ex, yes indeed i was in love with him... i lost him 5 years later i find him... is it fate i don't know... well he remembers this memory that occurred that made our relationship rocky in the first place... so he was upset, and said he couldn't get back together with me... tragically i was sad... but, after talking to some friends i realized if he can hold on to something so stupid for 5 years then we weren't meant to be together... so we figure that friendship is the best thing, i agreed i was just happy that i found him again... i've never cheated on him i always had his back he was my first so yes i wanted to stay friends with him... well he decides that he doesn't want to be friends!!! well my point is... if i would have cried and tried my hardest to be with him he would have kept talking to me but, because i agreed to be friends with him he doesn't want to talk to me any more. WTF... what's wrong with him???? guys i need some help here should i say F!*k him, or should i call and see what's up... i just went and watched the Ugly Truth... it was an awesome movie gees i need a male like that in my life..... need some suggestions please help!!!! and if you read this Andy you should tell me what's on your mind.... are we friends or not????? please don't beat around the bush!!!!